I find it funny how some people can have high confidence and then with one snide remark it can all go to the pisser. Why do people have to be so cruel sometimes? It may not be the meanest thing to say, but it can hurt someone. People need to think before they speak. "Hey, looks like someone's gaining some weight."

Is it just a friendly remark, or is the translation, "Hey, Fatty. Better lose some weight, your stomache is bulging over your tight ass pants"? Whatever it is... It means diet. One person can change so much about someone with so few words, it's almost frightening.

Be careful of what you say because you never know who it may offend or hurt. Simple remarks can leave deep impacts that you never thought would hurt. Whether it's true or not, be cautious of what you say around certain people.

Even if you're mad, be careful. If you're mad enough to say cruel things then you know that you care. If you care then you shouldn't be saying mean things at all. It's a double-edged sword, but learn to be the bigger person in any situation. Hurting a certain person may be the goal, but you could wind up hurting someone else even more. Is it fair? Of course not. But... it's life.